{"id":29680,"date":"2026-09-22T08:47:46","date_gmt":"2026-09-22T05:47:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/iletim.istanbul.edu.tr\/?p=29680"},"modified":"2026-09-22T09:25:25","modified_gmt":"2026-09-22T06:25:25","slug":"hayati-omuzlayan-ayni-gogun-kadinlari","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/iletim.istanbul.edu.tr\/index.php\/2026\/09\/22\/hayati-omuzlayan-ayni-gogun-kadinlari\/","title":{"rendered":"Hayat\u0131 Omuzlayan, Ayn\u0131 G\u00f6\u011f\u00fcn Kad\u0131nlar\u0131\u00a0"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Haber: Melek \u00d6zt\u00fcrk<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Foto\u011fraf: Melek \u00d6zt\u00fcrk<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0130stanbul, (\u0130\u00dc Haber Merkezi) \u2013  Ayn\u0131 g\u00fcn\u00fc ya\u015f\u0131yorlar. Ayn\u0131 y\u00fck\u00fc, farkl\u0131 isimlerle ta\u015f\u0131yorlar. Kimi buna vardiya diyor, kimi mesai, kimi ev i\u015fi, kimi ise okul ile i\u015f aras\u0131nda ge\u00e7en yo\u011fun tempo\u2026 Ad\u0131 de\u011fi\u015fse de g\u00fcn\u00fcn sonunda omuzlanan sorumluluk de\u011fi\u015fmiyor. Birinin mesaisi tarlada, di\u011ferinin ofiste, bir ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n evin i\u00e7inde, bir di\u011ferinin ise \u00fcniversite s\u0131ralar\u0131 ile i\u015f hayat\u0131 aras\u0131nda s\u00fcr\u00fcyor. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bu ortak ya\u015fam deneyimini \u00e7ift\u00e7i Meral \u00d6zt\u00fcrk, kurumsal ileti\u015fim y\u00f6neticisi Bet\u00fcl Karabacak, ev han\u0131m\u0131 Elif Ba\u015ft\u00fcrk ve hem okuyup hem \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan siyaset \u00f6\u011frencisi Esma Bet\u00fcl Karaku\u015f kendi hik\u00e2yeleriyle anlatt\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

G\u00fcn farkl\u0131 ba\u015flad\u0131, tempo ayn\u0131 kald\u0131<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sabah\u0131n erken saatlerinde ba\u015flayan g\u00fcn, d\u00f6rt kad\u0131n i\u00e7in farkl\u0131 sorumluluklarla \u015fekillendi. \u00d6zt\u00fcrk tarlaya giderek g\u00fcne ba\u015flarken, Karabacak ofiste yo\u011fun bir \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma temposuna haz\u0131rland\u0131. Ba\u015ft\u00fcrk ev i\u015fleri ve \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n sorumluluklar\u0131yla g\u00fcne ba\u015flad\u0131. Karaku\u015f ise dersleri ve i\u015fi aras\u0131nda g\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fc planlad\u0131. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sabah\u0131n ilk \u0131\u015f\u0131klar\u0131yla \u00d6zt\u00fcrk tarlaya gitmek i\u00e7in yola \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131. Tarlaya ula\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131nda kahvalt\u0131y\u0131 haz\u0131rlad\u0131, ard\u0131ndan g\u00fcn boyu di\u011fer i\u015f\u00e7ilerle birlikte \u00fcretimin i\u00e7inde yer ald\u0131. Sulama, ila\u00e7lama ve ertesi g\u00fcn\u00fcn haz\u0131rl\u0131klar\u0131yla mesaisi ak\u015fama kadar s\u00fcrd\u00fc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Karabacak ise uzun bir yolculu\u011fun ard\u0131ndan ofisine ula\u015ft\u0131. G\u00fcn\u00fcn plan\u0131n\u0131 yaparken ilk telefonla birlikte program de\u011fi\u015fti. Bas\u0131n talepleri, toplant\u0131lar, i\u00e7erik \u00fcretimi ve organizasyon haz\u0131rl\u0131klar\u0131 aras\u0131nda ge\u00e7en yo\u011fun tempoyu, “\u0130leti\u015fim i\u015fi biraz da an\u0131 y\u00f6netmek demek” s\u00f6zleriyle anlatt\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n

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Kurumsal \u0130leti\u015fim Y\u00f6neticisi Bet\u00fcl Karabacak<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n

Ba\u015ft\u00fcrk’\u00fcn g\u00fcn\u00fc ise mutfa\u011f\u0131n \u0131\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 yakmas\u0131yla ba\u015flad\u0131. Kahvalt\u0131 haz\u0131rland\u0131, \u00e7ocuk g\u00fcne haz\u0131rland\u0131, ev topland\u0131. G\u00fcn ilerledik\u00e7e \u00e7ama\u015f\u0131r, bula\u015f\u0131k ve yemek birbirini takip etti. “Benim i\u00e7in annelik ve ev han\u0131ml\u0131\u011f\u0131 hi\u00e7 bitmeyen bir mesai” dedi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Karaku\u015f ise g\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fc ders program\u0131na g\u00f6re \u015fekillendirdi. Ders g\u00fcnlerinde sabah erkenden yurttan \u00e7\u0131karak \u00fcniversiteye gitti, ders aralar\u0131nda okumalar\u0131n\u0131 tamamlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Dersinin olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 g\u00fcnlerde ise i\u015fine gitti. Yurda d\u00f6nd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde \u00f6devlerini tamamlad\u0131 ya da ertesi g\u00fcn\u00fcn haz\u0131rl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 yapt\u0131. “Ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131 yast\u0131\u011fa koydu\u011fumda ‘Bug\u00fcn de dolu dolu ge\u00e7ti’ diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum” s\u00f6zleriyle yo\u011fun temposunu \u00f6zetledi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

G\u00f6r\u00fcnmeyen emek<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Farkl\u0131 hayatlar ya\u015fayan d\u00f6rt kad\u0131n\u0131n ortak noktalar\u0131ndan biri, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman fark edilmeyen emekleri. \u00d6zt\u00fcrk, insanlar\u0131n yaln\u0131zca tarladaki g\u00f6r\u00fcnen k\u0131sm\u0131 izledi\u011fini, \u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fcn sofraya gelene kadar ge\u00e7en uzun eme\u011fin \u00e7o\u011fu zaman fark edilmedi\u011fini s\u00f6yledi.<\/p>\n\n\n

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\u00c7ift\u00e7i Meral \u00d6zt\u00fcrk<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n

Karabacak da benzer bir g\u00f6r\u00fcnmezli\u011fin kurumsal ileti\u015fim alan\u0131nda ya\u015fand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 belirtti. “\u0130nsanlar g\u00fczel videolar\u0131 ya da etkinlikleri g\u00f6r\u00fcyor ama onlar\u0131n arkas\u0131nda y\u00fczlerce telefon g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmesi, revize edilen metinler ve kriz anlar\u0131 var. As\u0131l emek g\u00f6r\u00fcnmeyen tarafta” dedi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ba\u015ft\u00fcrk ise ev i\u00e7indeki eme\u011fin \u00e7o\u011fu zaman i\u015f olarak de\u011ferlendirilmedi\u011fini belirterek, “Yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z i\u015fin mesaisi, tatili ya da izni yok. Kimse fark etmese de evin d\u00fczeni ve \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n mutlulu\u011fu i\u00e7in verilen emek \u00e7ok k\u0131ymetli” ifadelerini kulland\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Karaku\u015f ise g\u00f6r\u00fcnmeyen eme\u011fin \u00f6\u011frencilik ile \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma hayat\u0131n\u0131 ayn\u0131 anda y\u00fcr\u00fctmek oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yledi. “\u0130nsanlar beni ya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan biri ya da \u00fcniversite \u00f6\u011frencisi olarak g\u00f6r\u00fcyor. Ama ikisini ayn\u0131 anda y\u00fcr\u00fctmenin ne kadar zor oldu\u011funu bilmiyorlar. Bo\u015f zaman gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcnen saatler ders \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmakla ve ertesi g\u00fcn\u00fcn haz\u0131rl\u0131klar\u0131yla ge\u00e7iyor” diyerek yo\u011fun temposunu anlatt\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Yorgunluk g\u00fcn sonunda hissedildi<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

D\u00f6rt kad\u0131n da yorgunlu\u011fu \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken de\u011fil, g\u00fcn sona erdi\u011finde hissettiklerini s\u00f6yledi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00d6zt\u00fcrk, “Yorgunlu\u011fumu arabaya binene kadar hissetmiyorum. Eve do\u011fru yola \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131mda ‘Bug\u00fcn de ne kadar yorulmu\u015fuz’ diyorum” s\u00f6zleriyle g\u00fcn\u00fcn y\u00fck\u00fcn\u00fc anlatt\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Karabacak ise “Eve gelip sessizce oturdu\u011fum an ger\u00e7ekten yoruldu\u011fumu hissediyorum” diyerek zihinsel yorgunlu\u011fun a\u011f\u0131r bast\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ifade etti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ba\u015ft\u00fcrk de “Gece herkes uyudu\u011funda g\u00fcn\u00fcn yorgunlu\u011funu hissediyorum. Ama ailemin huzurla uyudu\u011funu g\u00f6rmek b\u00fct\u00fcn yorgunlu\u011fuma de\u011fiyor” dedi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Karaku\u015f ise yorgunlu\u011fu yurda d\u00f6nd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde hissetti\u011fini belirterek, “Odam\u0131n kap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 kapat\u0131p \u00e7antam\u0131 b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m anda b\u00fct\u00fcn g\u00fcn\u00fcn y\u00fck\u00fc \u00fczerime geliyor” ifadelerini kulland\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mesai bitti, sorumluluk bitmedi<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n

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Ortak olan yaln\u0131zca yorgunluk de\u011fil. Mesai saatleri sona erse de sorumluluklar devam ediyor. \u00d6zt\u00fcrk, o g\u00fcn\u00fcn \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131 sona erdikten sonra sulama, ila\u00e7lama ve ertesi g\u00fcn\u00fcn planlamas\u0131n\u0131 yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 belirterek, “Bu g\u00fcn\u00fcn i\u015fi bitti ama yar\u0131n olan i\u015fin bitmedi” dedi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Karabacak, ofisten ayr\u0131ld\u0131ktan sonra da telefonunun susmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ve \u00f6zellikle organizasyon d\u00f6nemlerinde ertesi g\u00fcn\u00fcn haz\u0131rl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 s\u00fcrd\u00fcrd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc ifade etti. “Genelde kad\u0131nlar i\u00e7in mesai ofisten \u00e7\u0131k\u0131nca bitmiyor” s\u00f6zleriyle g\u00f6r\u00fcnmeyen ikinci vardiyay\u0131 \u00f6zetledi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ba\u015ft\u00fcrk ise “Benim i\u015fim evde. Bu y\u00fczden g\u00fcn\u00fcn sonunda ‘Mesaim bitti.’ diyemiyorum” s\u00f6zleriyle ev i\u00e7indeki eme\u011fin kesintisiz s\u00fcrd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc dile getirdi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Karaku\u015f da i\u015ften sonra \u00f6\u011frencili\u011fin ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 belirterek, “Okunacak makaleler, haz\u0131rlanacak \u00f6devler oluyor. Bazen sadece dinlenmek istiyorum ama sorumluluklar buna pek izin vermiyor” dedi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kad\u0131n olman\u0131n getirdi\u011fi g\u00f6r\u00fcnmez y\u00fck<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

D\u00f6rt kad\u0131n, farkl\u0131 alanlarda \u00e7al\u0131\u015fsalar da kad\u0131n olman\u0131n ortak zorluklar\u0131n\u0131 ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yledi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Karabacak, kad\u0131nlardan ayn\u0131 anda hem g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc hem de her ko\u015fulda g\u00fcler y\u00fczl\u00fc olmalar\u0131n\u0131n beklendi\u011fini ifade etti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00d6zt\u00fcrk, kad\u0131n \u00e7ift\u00e7ilerin \u00fcretimin her a\u015famas\u0131nda yer almas\u0131na ra\u011fmen emeklerinin yeterince g\u00f6r\u00fcnmedi\u011fini s\u00f6yledi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ba\u015ft\u00fcrk ise “Evdesin, ne yoruluyorsun ki?” s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc duydu\u011funda ev i\u00e7indeki eme\u011fin h\u00e2l\u00e2 g\u00f6r\u00fcnmez kabul edilmesinin kendisini \u00fczd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc belirtti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Karaku\u015f da gen\u00e7 bir kad\u0131n olarak zaman zaman kendisini daha fazla kan\u0131tlamak zorunda hissetti\u011fini ifade ederek, “Ayn\u0131 s\u00f6zler bir erkek taraf\u0131ndan s\u00f6ylendi\u011finde daha fazla kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k buldu\u011fu anlar oldu” dedi.<\/p>\n\n\n

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En b\u00fcy\u00fck te\u015fekk\u00fcr<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Yo\u011fun ge\u00e7en g\u00fcnlerin i\u00e7inde onlar\u0131 ayakta tutan ise k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ama anlam\u0131 b\u00fcy\u00fck te\u015fekk\u00fcrler oldu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Karabacak, ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 bir organizasyonun ard\u0131ndan y\u00f6neticisinden duydu\u011fu “\u0130yi ki bu s\u00fcreci sen y\u00f6nettin” s\u00f6zlerini unutamad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yledi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ba\u015ft\u00fcrk i\u00e7in en anlaml\u0131 te\u015fekk\u00fcr \u00e7ocu\u011funun s\u00f6yledi\u011fi “Anne, iyi ki vars\u0131n” c\u00fcmlesi oldu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00d6zt\u00fcrk ise eme\u011finin kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131n e\u011fitimini s\u00fcrd\u00fcrebilmesinde g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc ifade etti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Karaku\u015f da ailesinin kendisine s\u00f6yledi\u011fi “Seninle gurur duyuyoruz” s\u00f6zlerinin b\u00fct\u00fcn yorgunlu\u011funu unutturdu\u011funu dile getirdi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

D\u00f6rt kad\u0131n ayn\u0131 g\u00fcn\u00fc ya\u015fad\u0131. Ayn\u0131 y\u00fck\u00fc farkl\u0131 isimlerle ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131. Biri topra\u011fa emek verdi, biri kurumsal hayat\u0131n temposuna yeti\u015fti, biri evini ayakta tuttu, biri ise e\u011fitimini s\u00fcrd\u00fcr\u00fcrken \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaya devam etti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

G\u00fcn bitti. \u00c7izmeler kap\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcne b\u0131rak\u0131ld\u0131, bilgisayar kapat\u0131ld\u0131, mutfa\u011f\u0131n \u0131\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131 s\u00f6nd\u00fc, ders notlar\u0131 masaya b\u0131rak\u0131ld\u0131. Ancak ertesi g\u00fcn\u00fcn plan\u0131 \u00e7oktan zihinlerinde yerini ald\u0131. Onlar\u0131n hik\u00e2yesi, farkl\u0131 alanlarda s\u00fcrd\u00fcr\u00fclen eme\u011fin ve sorumluluklar\u0131n g\u00fcn\u00fcn sonunda sona ermedi\u011fini g\u00f6steriyor.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Haber: Melek \u00d6zt\u00fcrk Foto\u011fraf: Melek \u00d6zt\u00fcrk \u0130stanbul, (\u0130\u00dc Haber Merkezi) \u2013  Ayn\u0131 g\u00fcn\u00fc ya\u015f\u0131yorlar. Ayn\u0131 y\u00fck\u00fc, farkl\u0131 isimlerle ta\u015f\u0131yorlar. Kimi buna vardiya diyor, kimi mesai, kimi ev i\u015fi, kimi ise okul ile i\u015f aras\u0131nda ge\u00e7en yo\u011fun tempo\u2026 Ad\u0131 de\u011fi\u015fse de g\u00fcn\u00fcn sonunda omuzlanan sorumluluk de\u011fi\u015fmiyor. Birinin mesaisi tarlada, di\u011ferinin ofiste, bir ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n evin i\u00e7inde, bir […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":14,"featured_media":29682,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jnews-multi-image_gallery":[],"jnews_single_post":{"format":"standard"},"jnews_primary_category":[],"jnews_social_meta":[],"jnews_override_counter":[],"jnews_post_split":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[1,159,28,2085,2348,35],"tags":[4377,4381,4380,4378,4379,3064,723,3349,4376],"class_list":["post-29680","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-genel","category-sag-manset","category-istanbul","category-manset-haber","category-manset-yani","category-yasam","tag-betul-karabacak","tag-calisma","tag-calisma-hayati","tag-elif-basturk","tag-esma-betul-karakus","tag-is","tag-kadin","tag-melek-ozturk","tag-meral-ozturk"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/iletim.istanbul.edu.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29680","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/iletim.istanbul.edu.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/iletim.istanbul.edu.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/iletim.istanbul.edu.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/14"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/iletim.istanbul.edu.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=29680"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/iletim.istanbul.edu.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29680\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":29700,"href":"https:\/\/iletim.istanbul.edu.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29680\/revisions\/29700"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/iletim.istanbul.edu.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/29682"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/iletim.istanbul.edu.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=29680"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/iletim.istanbul.edu.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=29680"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/iletim.istanbul.edu.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=29680"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}